Thursday, May 27, 2010

What to do if your spouse sexual desire is higher that yours

There is no doubt about the fact that every normal human being enjoys having sex. Sex is actually created for the enjoyment of couples in marriage. But there are time when the sexual desire of one person may be higher that that of his or her partner. This simple issue if not well handle can hinder the marital success, this is because true love can not exist in marriage without sexual fulfillment.
If you find yourself in such situation where your spouse sexual desire is not as high as yours, try to make use of these few tips. It will go a long way in improving your sexual relationship with your spouse.
i. Find time to discuss it; you need not to shy away from it if you really want your relationship to be intact always. Sex issue is like a fire that could consume a marital house if not put under control early. Discussion like this is better when the two of you are alone in a relaxed atmosphere, probably at bed time. It will help you to improve your sexual relationship if you can let your partner know how you feel when sexual intercourse with him or her.
ii. Get information from books on the issue; there are many books out there that address issues that pertain to sexual satisfaction in marriage, where you can get idea about how to improve your sexual life. So get flexible on the matter and be ready to put the information to use, remember that it is all for the success of your sexual relationship.
iii. Put your knowledge to work; as earlier mentioned, until you put those knowledge you’ve acquired to work, you are not likely to get the desired result. Prescription alone will not improve your condition, you have to carry out the prescribed steps for a good result.
iv. Be constant in showing your love; do not let the situation at hand affect your usual love and affection for your partner. Work towards being the same in showing your affection for him or her. If you are in need of improvement, both of you can jointly discuss it and find a solution together.

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